Dr.'s Appointment

(Written Wednesday afternoon)

Most of you already know, but for those of you who don't... I am currently in the hospital being induced.

I went to my doctor's appointment on Wednesday morning.  My blood pressure was 128/88, which I thought was good.  Apparently the nurses and doctor didn't, because I heard them talking about it in the hall.  She had me lay down and then came back in to take it and it was 128/86, so it didn't go down much after laying down.

I did a non stress test and Olivia was moving all over the place.  Both the nurse and doctor said (at separate times) how "happy" she was.  Michael and I thought it looked like she was trying to kick of the monitor. :)

My doctor came in and checked me.  I was 2 cm, but my cervix was still thick.  She asked me how I felt about having a baby tomorrow.  That wasn't in my box of options, so it took me off guard for a moment.  I told her that I was ready, so if she thought that was best then I was fine with that.

She said there was protein in my urine. So I went from no protein a few appointments ago, to traces of protein last time (which I didn't know about), to +1 this time--or something like that.  She said that I was basically 38 weeks and she felt good about delivering a 38 week old baby.  She said she'd rather get me delivered now, since we know where things are headed, then wait until next week and then I get sick (because of preeclampsia) and have complications.

We were told to arrive at the hospital at 10 o'clock Wednesday night to get a cervix ripening medication.  Depending on how that goes, I will be given pitocin in this morning to get things rolling.

I have a blog scheduled for tomorrow.  After that, I'm not sure when I'll be on here.  I hope to get pictures of Olivia up as soon as possible! :) 

Dr.'s Appointment

It's official... I'm on strict bed rest.

The appointment went as follows:

• I got my blood pressure taken and it was 138/100.  Yeah... the bottom number was HIGH.  I had to lay on my left side for ten minutes (like the last 3 appointments).
• My blood pressure then went down to 128/74.  Better...
• My doctor came in and said I was pretty much on bed rest.  She said I could shower and make myself a sandwich, but that was about it.  I got permission to go to my hair appointment (today), but after that she doesn't really even want me leaving the house.
• I can't even sit on the couch with my feet up... I pretty much have to be laying.
• She considered moving my induction up, but decided to let me wait it out and see.  My next appointment is on Wednesday.  She will decide then if I go in on Friday for the induction or wait until Tuesday as planned.
• I didn't have an internal this time.  She is going to do one on Wednesday.  If everything is still on schedule for the Tuesday induction, she will decide if I come in Monday night for cervadil or Tuesday morning and go straight into pitocin.
• I am measured at 38, which is 2 cm less than last time.  That is because Olivia has started dropping.  I started feeling weird pressure and movements on Thursday night.  I think that's when she started dropping.  Once they start dropping, there is less baby to measure, which is why your measurement goes down.
• She felt my stomach and pointed out the head and it was pretty low.
• We got some questions answered about video taping, picture taking and having a birth plan.
• I did another pre-eclampsia blood draw.  That is also going to weigh in on whether or not I go for the induction on Friday or Tuesday.

That's pretty much the scoop.  Thankfully most everything is done.  Michael is going to step in and help out with Little Man as much as possible.  Luckily it's only for a week.  Nana and Papa are arriving on Friday afternoon.

36 Weeks

How far along: 36 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 33 to 36 (month 8) the baby is the size of a honeydew

As of Tuesday the 31st she was 6 pounds, 6 ounces

 I'm guessing she's at least 7 pounds by now... maybe even 7 and a half pounds.

Total weight gain/loss: +30

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: She's making big movements daily.  Michael and Olivia have conversations.  She won't be moving at all and he will talk to my belly.  Suddenly she will kick or move (right where his head is).  He'll talk.  She'll kick or move.  If he sits quiet for a bit, she stays still.  It's pretty cute.  Most times when Michael feels movement he says "Whoa!" because it's always pretty big and strong.

Sleep: My sleep wasn't the best this week.  I'll be tired and go to bed and then lay there for a long time...well, besides getting up every half hour to pee.  For whatever reason, when I first go to bed, I end up getting up a ton in the first two hours.  I'm back to napping every day when Little Man does.  I'm wondering if that's why I can't sleep at night, but I just can't help it.  I'm so tired during the day.  Sometimes I sleep during school time too.  I guess my body is just preparing me for when she's here. :)

What I miss: being comfortable... Everything is much harder to do now.  I just recently started having trouble getting in my car.  It feels like such a chore!

Cravings: watermelon, jello, dessert (any kind really)

Symptoms: swelling!!!
I bought two pair of flip flops in a bigger size and even they get snug when the swelling goes up.  I have a feeling the swelling is here to stay.  I'm hoping that's what's up with the weight gain too.  I've read a lot of places that if you are gaining that much at the end (I've been gaining a pound and a half a week for about a month now), that it's most likely water weight.  Hopefully that's the case, because it will be easier to get off.

Fun Purchases: We ordered a few things for our newborn picture session.  I also ordered more bows from etsy.  I've really been wanting something monogrammed, but have yet to find what it is I want.  Also, I bought this bag.

I'll probably get another bag at one point, but I'm just not sure what or when. 

Surprises: I was surprisingly pleased that my blood pressure wasn't out of control at my appointment.  I was expecting it to be high and to be put on strict bed rest.

What I'm looking forward to: Obviously I'm looking forward to meeting my baby girl.  Besides that, I'm really excited about our newborn picture session.  I can't wait!

Dates:

June 17--36 wk doctors appointment

June 22--37 wk doctors appointment
June 28-INDUCTION! 

TWO WEEKS LEFT!!!!!!

Baby Care Class

Sorry for another picture-less post, but this was just too cute to pass up.

Yesterday we attended our last hospital class before the birth of our little girl.  This class was a 3 hour "baby care" class.  I didn't sign up for it at first.  It was about changing diapers, feeding and burping babies, giving newborn baths, and other basic infant care.  I figured that I had it all pretty well under control, even though I've never been soley responsible for a newborn.  I planned to just teach Michael what I knew.  After some thought, I figured it might be better for him to learn from someone else.  I don't want to be his "baby boss".

We showed up at class and there was a baby doll on our table.  Each doll was swaddled in a blanket with a diaper laying on top.  Michael was immediately intrigued.  He started checking out the diaper.  I made a comment about it not looking like a newborn diaper.  Then I saw a 1 and pointed out that it was a size 1 diaper.  Michael must not have heard me.  Either that or he didn't understand.  The 1 was on the right side of the diaper by the velcro tab.  He started looking around at the diaper.  Then he said, "Where's the number 2?"  I couldn't help it.  I had to laugh.  I told him that the 1 was the size.  There was no number 2. He said, "Oh, I thought it had step by step numbered directions."  LOL!  We both got a good laugh.  It's understandable.  He doesn't know about diapers--YET!

The class started.  There were 8 couples in the class.  The teacher began talking.  Everyone was sitting and listening.  Everyone, that is, except my dear husband.  No.  He was unswaddling the doll... checking out the diaper... talking about the eye color of the doll... moving her hat around... re-wrapping it in the blanket... holding it...  Can you tell he's a little excited?  I finally had to tell him to pay attention!! :) 

He spent the whole ten minute break smiling from ear to ear telling me how excited he is for Olivia to come.  He's going to be such a good daddy! :)

Yesterday's Doctor's appointment

I know you've all be on the edge of your seat waiting to hear about yesterdays doctor's appointment! :)  The good thing is, I was not put on bed rest.  I just have to keep doing what I've been doing--no sodium, drink lots of water, and put my feet up as much as possible.

Here's the scoop:

• My blood pressure was 138/86.  Just so you don't have to scroll through old posts to see what that means... the top number went down (from 144 last time), but is still considered high for me.  The bottom number went up (from 80).  I recently found out that the bottom number is more of a concern than the top number and that if it goes over 100 that is a serious danger zone!
• I had to lay on my left side again.  The nurse came back in about 10 minutes and it was 107/72 (I told you I have low blood pressure normally!)
• The nurse practitioner said that as long as it goes down when I lay on my left side (and I don't get any other symptoms like headaches that don't go away or blurry vision), then we are in the clear.  She said it becomes a concern when I lay on my side and it doesn't go down.
• No protein in my urine, so that's good!
• I am measuring at 40 weeks.  I am 35 1/2 weeks, so I stayed at 4 1/2 weeks ahead.
• Olivia's heart rate was in the 150's, which is good.
• I was tested for Group B Strep and will find out if I have that in a few days (which, for those of you who aren't familiar or haven't had kids recently, is very common for the mom to have--it just means that you are put on antibiotics during labor)
• I had my first internal exam.  First she said I wasn't dilated at all, but then she said maybe a fingertip.  My cervix is still thick and long, but starting to soften.  She said I might be about 50% effaced.  Olivia is still high.  I didn't think she had dropped yet.

As of right now it looks like things are still on track for the induction.  My next appointment is June 17th.

35 Weeks

 No need to adjust your computer screen.  No, I'm not sick.  It was just a lazy day with no make up.  I didn't feel like doing my hair either.  So, this is what you get...  I'm looking pretty stinkin' big, huh?


How far along: 35 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 33 to 36 (month 8) the baby is the size of a honeydew

As of Tuesday the 31st she was 6 pounds, 6 ounces

Total weight gain/loss: +28.6

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: I've felt her much more this week--mostly because I'm laying around doing nothing.  When you are on the move, you are basically rocking the baby to sleep.  Since I am not on the move, she has been awake much more.

Sleep: I had a really good week of sleep.  I slept in most days and even took a few naps.

What I miss: being comfortable... Yep, I'm at that stage

Cravings: sweets, fruit

Symptoms: just a little cramping and a few headaches, other than that it's been a good week

Fun Purchases: Even though I was on bed rest we went out and did a few things (not too much).  Tuesday morning after my doctor's appointment we went and did a big grocery shop.  I spent the day before planning out what we would need.  Luckily it went rather quick since I was organized.  Then Wednesday morning we headed to Costco.  We stocked up on snacks, toilet paper, paper towels, Clorox wipes, and a few other goodies we found along the way.  Even though these aren't necessarily "fun" purchases, it makes me happy because I feel more prepared now.  I guess it's my way of nesting.

Surprises: How boring bed rest is!  I didn't really have plans for my vacation... I'm doing what I thought I would (read, relax, watch TV, sleep in).  Only bed rest makes you feel more imprisoned.  I can't stand and cook like I wanted to, or run to the store without feeling like I have limited time.  I'm hoping that I can avoid bed rest the rest of this pregnancy!

Best Moment this week: not having to get up early and go to work... spending more time with Michael because I was home

Other: The breastfeeding class was just alright.  I'm not sure I learned a ton that I didn't already know.  I guess it was a good refresher coarse.  I'm hoping things go well.  Luckily, there is a lactation consultant that is on call at all times.  Even if I leave the hospital and need more help, it's free to go back in for an appointment.  That is comforting to me.

Dates:
June 8- 35 1/2 wk doctors appointment
 June 11-Baby care class

??--36 1/2 wk doctors appointment

??--37 1/2 wk doctors appointment
June 28-INDUCTION!

THREE WEEKS LEFT!!!!!!

And the Ultrasound Said.........

First, you are suppose to drink 24 ounces of fluid a half hour before your appointment.  I drank both water and some juice.  I got in there and the first thing she said was that my bladder was almost empty.  I guess that means I am a little dehydrated.  I kind of thought I was.  I even mentioned to Michael the other day that I was.  He said he thought I was drinking plenty.  I am drinking water constantly!!  I drink more water than I can even count.  I guess maybe since I am retaining water and having blood pressure issues that I need even more water?!  At least it's just a little dehydrated and not full on.  I don't want to have to go in and have IV's.  I am upping my water intake even more.  (blah.  I'm so sick of water!!!!)

One of the first things she pointed out was that Olivia has hair.  I was sort of expecting her to come out bald, so that was interesting.

She said my fluids were good--not too much and not too low.  That's a relief.

She did all the measurements and said everything was looking good.  She asked how much I weighed when I was born.  I told her I weight 8 pounds 13 1/4 ounces.  Then I mentioned that Michael weighed almost the same.  She said most first babies take after their mother's birth weight.  I had never heard that before.  The only thing is... I was almost a week late weighing that much.  Olivia is going to come 2 weeks early and probably still weigh close to what I did!!!

So after it was all over she told us that Olivia is coming in at SIX POUNDS and SIX OUNCES.  I asked what percentile that was and she looked and said it was the 92%.  All I know is that you do not want to go over 100%.  So she's big, but not in the worry zone yet I guess.

Holy Cow!

At 29 weeks I was measuring only a half a week ahead--completely normal

At 31 weeks I mentioned that I didn't feel like I looked as big as some of the other pregnant women around me.  Really, I still didn't feel like my bump was that huge.  I went to the doctor a few days later and found out I was measuring 2 1/2 weeks ahead.  It still doesn't look huge to me.

Then we go to 32 weeks.  I guess I shouldn't have said anything about not feeling big!!!

One week...

I think I jinxed myself!?!?

Just a few days before this picture I was told I am measuring 4 1/2 weeks ahead

How much bigger will I get in the next 4 weeks?

Week 24                                           Week 34

Update from Doctor's Appointment

Well, it's official... I will NOT be having a JULY baby, but rather a JUNE baby.

When I got to the doctor's office, I was weighed and gave a urine sample as always.  Then the nurse came in and took my blood pressure.  It was 144/80!  Not good.  Last time it was 130/80 and that was considered "border line".  She had me lay down and said she'd be back.  Turns out she forgot about me while eating her snack (I swear my doctor's office is a mess!).  It was probably 10 or 15 minutes later when she came back.  That time my blood pressure was 100/72.  Much better!  She said that there was no protein in my urine, which is a sign of preeclampsia.  That was a good thing.  She said I might have to do some 24 pee test.  You put some cup thing on your toilet and catch your pee every time and save it in a jug.  Then you bring the jug in the next day.  Yeah, that didn't sound like fun.

Luckily when my doctor came in she said I would not have to do that.  She decided to have a preeclampsia blood draw done instead.  She asked how much I could lay around and rest while doing my job.  I told her that I have my feet up a lot since Little Man is at school for 3 hours and naps for 2.  Plus I put them up when he is playing.  I told her that I would be on vacation this next week and she said I had to lay around the whole time.  She apologized for ruining any plans but said that I basically could not do anything.  Great.  I'm so glad I got most of my shopping done!  The one thing I really wanted to do was cook meals to freeze.  Michael offered to do it (with my supervising from the couch), so that may end up being our plan b.  I am not officially on full blown bed rest, but she said it could come to that.  I'm hoping not just because of my job.  I know bed rest is boring, but I wouldn't care as much except I would be putting another family out.  We'll see.

Then she measured me and I measured 38 cm.  I said, "38?!?!?!"  She didn't seem too concerned at first.  I don't think she realized that I am only 33 1/2 weeks!!  She looked at the calendar and said, "Oh".  I am now going in on Tuesday for an ultrasound to check the size of the baby and also to make sure all of my fluid levels are still ok.

So just to recap--2 appointments ago I was measuring a half a week ahead.  1 appointment ago I was measuring 2 1/2 weeks ahead and this time I was measuring 4 1/2 weeks.  I am gaining 2 extra weeks every appointment!!  What the heck?  I haven't gained that much weight, so it must be all baby.  I don't feel huge.  I don't even feel like I look 38 weeks.  Nana and Papa arrived the other day and the first thing Nana said was "You still don't look that big".  I'm taking that statement to the bank! :)

My doctor looked at the calendar again and said we are scheduling an induction for June 28th.  She said they don't normally do elective inductions (for size, just because it could be wrong-and big baby doesn't mean fully developed baby), but she doesn't think my blood pressure issues are going anywhere.  She is labeling it a hypertension induction.  Of course, there is still a chance that I could go even before then if there was some blood pressure emergency.  By the way, my starting blood pressure was 108/70 something.

So I go in on Tuesday for the ultrasound.  Then I go back to the doctor on June 8th for my next appointment.

Hospital Bag List?!?

Like I mentioned, I have been collecting an extensive "hospital bag" list for months now.  I realize every person is different, every birthing experience is different, and every hospital is different.  I'm trying to decide from this list what I really need to take, and what isn't really necessary.  I'm guessing that even those of you who read this will have differing opinions.  I'm just trying to come up with the best plan I can.

I've also read that it's best to have two bags--one for the actual labor and delivery room and then another for when you are moved to the patient room where you stay for a few days.  That way you can leave the second bag in the car and send your husband out to get it after you've been moved.  The thought process is that if something happens in labor and delivery (you have to have a c-section and get moved to the surgery room), your bag and other things aren't left unwatched, etc.  Some say to have a third bag-one for the baby.  I will bring the stuff for Olivia, but it will probably just end up in my bag.

Here is the list.  The pink is my commentary, the purple is where I have a question for you.

Labor and Delivery Room

• lotion--for massage?  You are suppose to bring things that relax you.  Music doesn't relax me.  I like silence.  You can't bring candles, even though everything talks about aromatherapy.  The only thing I could think of was a hand or foot massage, and I don't even know if I'll want that.
• my own pillow--some people said this makes it more comfortable.  necessary?
• insurance card
• ID
• change for vending machine/cash--From the moment we check into Labor and Delivery, Michael gets 3 meals a day.  There are also rooms available for guests (and the spouse) that are stocked with free snacks.  Either way, bringing the extra change is easy and a good back up plan. 
• snacks-- Like I just said, there will be snacks available. I'm just not sure what they are going to be.  This way, Michael can eat if he wants.  I've also heard that after birth you are starving, so having something immediately handy sounds good to me.  I'm not going to go overboard though.
• gum-- because you can't eat, helps keep your mouth moist
• hard candy-- did you guys use these?  I heard they aren't even allowed at some hospitals.  I'm not a huge hard candy person, so I'm not convinced I'll want these.  Thoughts?
• water--because Frisco city water tastes like dirt!
• slippers
• socks
• camera/charger
• video camera--no, we are not video taping the birth... just for (maybe) before and definitely after
• paper for baby book-- to make footprints... I heard it's better to get it done on scrapbook paper then to do it directly in the baby book.  Babies can be squirmy, so if it gets messed up they can just do it again.
• notepad/pen-- I don't know--someone mentioned you may want this.  Mostly because it's hard to remember things, so you can write yourself notes if necessary.  Since I am a list kind of girl, I figured I might like having this on hand.
• contacts/solution/glasses
• magazine/book/other entertainment--Did you use these?  Some people use them because labor can be long and boring at first.  Then I heard others say they brought them but never used them.  I'm thinking skip it, but want to know what you think.
• cell phone charger

Patient room after birth bag

• towel--Yes, the hospital is suppose to supply towels, but word is they are small and scratchy and having your own towel is just an added luxury for that first after birth shower.
• toiletries (deodorant, body spray, etc)
• shower supplies
• make up-- Yes, I am bringing my make up.  I will be in pictures.  I'm not going to look like a crazy in all of my first documented days with my baby. :)  You can think I'm loony if you want.
• toothbrush/toothpaste
• hair supplies--brush, blow dryer, curling iron--See make up answer! :)
• nursing bra
• sleep bra
• nursing tank
• yoga pants--My friend said this is a good idea because it keeps everything in place... if you know what I mean. (no shifting pads)
• hoodie--hospitals can be cold?
• nursing pajamas
• granny panties--in case I don't love the mesh underwear as much as people say I will
• going home outfit
• robe
• flip flops--for the shower?  not sure about this one... it's a hospital, shouldn't it be sanitary?
• breast pads--some said hospital supplied it... some said they didn't, or didn't like the ones that were supplied to them.
• nipple cream--same as breast pads.  I'm thinking of leaving this and the breast pads home.  I'll show Michael where they are, and if I find I need them, he can run home and get them.
• laptop
• clothes and shower supplies for Michael
• extra bag (like the reusable grocery store ones) to bring home hospital supplies (all the extra after birth things they let you take) and gifts--I don't suppose we'll get many gifts in the hospital.  I don't think we'll have many visitors.  However, I've read that you should take everything they let you (you are paying for it anyway)--pads, mesh underwear, baby supplies, etc.
• boppy/my breast friend

 For Baby

• outfits for hospital
• going home outfit (a couple in various sizes, just in case)
• hair bows :)
• blanket/swaddler
• diapers--some people said that their hospital only had size 1 diapers and their baby needed newborn.  Have you heard of this?  This seems bizarre to me.  Shouldn't they have multiple sizes?!
• other--other people took rash ointments, wipes, etc.  I'm just going to assume my hospital has it all

 Luckily, we live about five minutes from our hospital.  If Michael needs to run home for something, it won't be a problem.  Anything I'm missing?  Anything you think I should remove?

33 Weeks

How far along: 33 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 33 to 36 (month 8) the baby is the size of a honeydew

Average size is 17.2-18.7 inches and between 4.2 and 5.8 pounds!!

Total weight gain/loss: +25.6

Maternity clothes: Yep, every day!  I even have maternity pajamas now.

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: It goes in phases.  Some days I worry that I haven't felt her enough, but then the next day she will be on the move nonstop.  There probably isn't much room left, which I am guessing is why the movements have slowed down some.  Plus, some days I am busier than others and I don't feel her when I am on the move.

Sleep: Surprisingly, it hasn't been terrible.  Sleeping at Little Man's house for half the week actually allowed me to get more sleep than I usually do.  Unfortunately, I am waking up every hour and a half to pee.  It's a little insane.  I know.  Part of it is probably being in the third trimester, but the other part is that I am having to drink so much water in order to keep the swelling down.  Thankfully I can always go back to sleep quickly.  The worst part is every time I lay down (day or night), I have some sort of restless leg syndrome.

What I miss: SODA!

Cravings: sweets, fruit, McDonald's (which I've been avoiding because of the sodium)

Symptoms: swelling, restless leg syndrome, some fatigue, stretch marks :(, having to pee all the time--or feeling like I have to even when I don't.  She must be right on my bladder.  Oh, and heartburn/acid reflux has returned in full force.  It use to be just certain foods would trigger it.  Now it's basically every afternoon and every night in the middle of the night.  It doesn't matter what I eat, when I eat it, how fast or slow I eat it.  It just comes.  The book says it's common to get worse now because my stomach has no room.

Fun Purchases: I was able to buy almost everything off of my "lists".  There are just a few things left for me to get.

Surprises: hmm... not too many this week

Best Moment this week: checking items off my list, date night/day with Michael

Milestones: I am starting my 8th month!!!

Things I am looking forward to: Honestly, I'm looking forward to my doctor's appointment on Wednesday.  I want to know if things have changed any.  Since the last measurement was taken by the nurse practitioner, and it's not an exact science, I'm wondering if I will still be measuring as big... or bigger... or more back to normal once my doctor measures.

I'm also looking forward to a week and a half off of work!!!!

32 Weeks

How far along: 32 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 29 to 32 the baby is the size of a squash

Average size is 15.2-16.7 inches and between 2.5 to 3.8 pounds

Finally, the last week as a squash!!! 

Total weight gain/loss: +24

Maternity clothes: yep... every day

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: She still has her dance parties.  She doesn't move as much throughout the day, but her movements are bigger and stronger.  Just when I think "I haven't felt her in a while", she'll kick.  It's funny too, because there will be nothing for a really long time and then Michael will text me from work and she will inevitably start kicking.  I told him she knows and she's trying to say hi.  She's already a daddy's girl.

Sleep: It hasn't been too bad this week.  I've been really tired during the day, so I've been sleeping during preschool time and nap time.  I'm not sure if it's thyroid/iron thing, a third trimester thing, or just me not getting enough sleep because of Michael's schedule.  My blood was not drawn at my doctor's appointment like it should have been.  I called to mention it and ask if I should come in.  The nurse said no, that waiting two weeks will be fine.  At this point, I trust little that my doctor's office says.  I decided to go ahead and split up when I take the thyroid and iron medications.  I've only done it for a few days, but I'm hoping it will help.

What I miss: bending over, not having shortness of breath

Cravings: sweets, fruit--I'm glad the good stuff is coming into season

Symptoms: At this point the big one is swelling.  I am constantly having to put my feet up.  I am chugging water like nobodies business, hoping that will help.  Plus, for the past few weeks I have been having bouts of restless leg syndrome, which seems to be getting worse/more frequent.  I could do without that.

Fun Purchases: Nothing that I can think of.  I've been searching for a new bra for the past two weeks with little success (the problem being my size).  They say not to buy a nursing bra until week 36 and then after your milk comes in you'll have to buy another one anyway.  I'm going to try to make it a few more weeks and then just buy a nursing one for the hospital/first few days.  I might as well try to kill two birds with one stone at this point.

Surprises: my doctor's visit was a bit of a surprise

First meal:  I see on the bump all the time people asking what will be your first meal after birth.  Common answers are things that have not been allowed--like champagne and sushi.  I always kind of laughed it off and figured I'd eat whatever the hospital was going to bring me.  I've heard they are really accommodating for the mom.  Then, this week, after soda was taken away I changed my mind.  I didn't drink soda every day, but it was a nice treat every once in a while.  Plus, I haven't had any Diet Coke this whole pregnancy because of the artificial sweeteners.  I told Michael I do have a "first meal" request.  I want a large Diet Coke from McDonald's (because it's the best, and if you are a diet coke drinker you will agree) and a big juicy hot dog (probably from Sonic since it is the most convenient.)  Mmmmm... I can't wait! :)

Info from my Doctor's appointment

Well, yesterday's doctor's appointment wasn't all that great.  It started out with the normal urine sample and weight check.  Nothing was said about either of those.  (Although, I don't know how quickly the urine is tested.  I could get a phone call today if there was a problem.)

From there I always go into the room and have my blood pressure taken.  She took it and said it was 130/80.  It sounded high to me, so I asked if it was alright and she said it was "border line".  In case you aren't aware, when you are pregnant it's not the actual number that is the issue.  They base any problems on your personal blood pressure history.  So if your numbers are up 30 points from your normal/starting blood pressure, then there could be cause for concern.  I'm not sure what my starting/normal blood pressure is, but I know it's always been good (in the lower range).  This caused me a little concern.

My doctor was out for whatever reason, so I saw the nurse practitioner.  When she came in we were talking about other unfriendly issues that have crept up in the last week.  (Not to be discussed on the internet! :)  She took the babies heart beat and said she sounded good.  Then she measured me.  She said, "How many weeks along are you?"  Right then I knew it wasn't good.  I said that I was 31 and a half weeks.  She then told me that I was measuring big.  This has been my fear all along!  She said not to freak out about it.  It doesn't mean I'm having a 12 pound baby.  She said it could have to do with how the baby is positioned.  She said we'd go ahead and schedule an ultrasound for the next visit.  Michael had some concerns since we've had 5 now, so she said we were fine to wait.  If I come in next time and am still measuring big, then we will for sure have to order an ultrasound.  Right now I am measuring at 34 weeks.  That is TWO AND A HALF weeks early.  Two weeks ago I was only measuring a half a week early, which is considered normal.  Holy cow that's a big jump!  I told her that I was worried because both Michael and I were almost 9 pound babies.  She said, "Oh... well, you know that does factor in to this."  Yes, yes I know.  Thank you.

She then went into talking about my blood pressure.  She said she could see my feet were swollen.  She asked other questions, like have I been getting headaches.  I just started to get them this week.  She said right now it is not cause for huge concern.  I have to watch my salt intake, stop drinking soda, drink lots of water (which I already do), and make sure to put my feet up more.  Then she gave me a few things to look out for and said if any of those happen to call them right away.  She said if I come back in two weeks and these things haven't helped, or it's gotten worse, then we may have a problem.

I asked about being induced if the baby remains big or keeps growing at a rapid rate.  She said the earliest they induce (for a big baby) is 38 weeks.  Just because you have a big baby doesn't mean you have a fully developed baby.  They normally do c-sections and inductions on Tuesdays, so if I am induced at 38 weeks, I would go in June 28th.

She then had me lay on my left side for a little while and have my blood pressure checked again.  It was down to 122/70.

So while she repeated that at this point I should not worry, I am (of course) worrying.  I don't want preeclampsia or a 10 pound baby.  I am going to do my best to follow the instructions given and I guess we'll find out in 2 weeks what the update is.  My next appointment is Wednesday the 25th.

31 Weeks

How far along: 31 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 29 to 32 the baby is the size of a squash

Average size is 15.2-16.7 inches and between 2.5 to 3.8 pounds

Total weight gain/loss: +22.4

Maternity clothes: That is all I wear now.  One day I tried wearing an old pair of sweatpants to work.  As soon as I dropped Little Man off at preschool, I went home and took them off.  They were so uncomfortable on my belly.  Lesson learned!

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: I feel like her movement has decreased some this week.  Don't get me wrong--she still has her midnight dance parties.  One night Michael had his arm around me and could feel her moving around all the way from his hand (which was on my left side) to his arm (which was across the middle and my right).  He just kept laughing or saying things like "Man!" or "Whoa!" or "Wow!'.  Yeah.  That's happening inside me!!!  But during the day she has slowed down some.  I actually got worried one day, so I did a kick count.  I ate dinner, drank a cold glass of water, waited a half hour and then started counting.  She surpassed the ten kicks in an hour requirement, so I felt much better.  It's probably just that she is starting to run out of room.  It just threw me a little, because for the few weeks before this she has been on the move all day every day.

Sleep: It's been better! :/

What I miss: The freedom to bend over and pick something up!  I can still physically bend over, but it hurts my belly so I try not to.

Cravings: sweets, fruit--I'm glad the good stuff is coming into season

Symptoms: I think I've started nesting.  I decided one day that Michael's closet needed to be reorganized.  I hardly even go in there, but it was bothering me that I knew it looked like a mess.  We did that, and then that turned into an all out house cleaning.  I am also feeling the need to collect things I need for my hospital bag or items after birth.  This is causing me some anxiety.  There are so many unknowns--what size I'll need in nursing bras/tanks, etc.

Fun Purchases: I purchased chap stick and slippers for said hospital bag.  I also bought the Llama Llama books that are at Kohl's for $5 this month.  I love them and didn't have them, so I got them! :)

Surprises: There have been multiple incidents where pregnant woman have been around and I feel they are MUCH bigger than me.  Then I find out they are either due after me or at the same time as me.  I always figured I would gain all over, and I think I have to some degree.  I'm just amazed at how I look compared to others I guess.  To me, I still don't feel huge.  Don't get me wrong (as has been done from this blog before), I am NOT wishing to be huge.  I just always assumed with my family history (me, my mom, my grandma), that I would gain a ton and be very large.  I think I just expected in my head to be bigger at this point than I am now.  One lady at our life group is due two whole months after me and her belly looks big to me.  Of course, it's her second so that could have something to do with it.  We were sitting at the pediatricians office and this one lady looked to me like she was due within the next few weeks or so.  Then I heard her tell someone she's due July 11th.  That's the day after me.  I turned to Michael and said, "Do I look like that?"  He said, "Everyone is different'.  I said, "I know that, but do I look like that?"  He said no, he  didn't think I looked that big.  I just wanted to make sure that I was seeing myself as I really looked.  I'm sure in about five weeks I will be telling you all that I feel like a house! :)

Best Moment this week: We've had a lot of good moments this week!
1. Choosing a pediatrician.  Seriously.  It's a huge relief to check that off my list.
2.  Choosing a newborn photographer.  I had one that I fell in love with months ago.  She was pretty expensive (like most newborn photographers are), but I loved her style, props, ideas, etc.  I emailed her about two weeks ago and she said she will be traveling and not shooting at all for the whole month of July.  Honestly, I was heart broken.  I was SO set on her.  So that led me to looking and looking for a plan B.  There are a lot of photographers in our area, but I find the black and white pictures with a naked newborn on a plain blanket to be boring.  I wanted one that used backdrops and props and color.  Those type are much harder to find.  I finally found one that I liked and we are on the books!  YAY!  (and yay to my husband for agreeing to this... he thinks the cost is a little outrageous, but is willing to do it for me! :)
3. Having the 3D/4D ultrasound and getting to see Olivia again.  Also, getting the reassurance that she is still doing just fine.

Milestones: 9 weeks to go!  Um... hello! That's single digits!!!


We spent the weekend taking the child birthing class at our hospital.  Luckily, it's free.  I've heard some hospitals make you pay.  The class was from 9 to 3 both Saturday and Sunday.  A lot of what was taught I already knew, but some of it was new.  Of course, you can have a ton of information, but it's nothing like going through it.  I realize that.  Michael and I both walked away with the same feeling.  It wasn't life changing or super enlightening, but we are still glad we went ahead and took the class.  If nothing else, it was a refresher coarse on some of the things we've already read or heard about.

We will be taking the breastfeeding class on June 4th.  That is the one I'm looking forward to.  I'm hoping to gain lots of information.  I am committed to breastfeeding at least for the first sixth months (because of the incredible benefits for both me and the baby).  It is the one thing I'm most worried about.  I know it will not be easy, so any help I can get I will take.

We are also taking a baby care class on June 11th.  Originally I didn't sign us up for this, but then I thought we better.  We are more doing it for Michael since he has no first hand experience with infants.  While I have a lot of kid knowledge, have changed hundreds of diapers, given bottles, etc., I have never been in charge of a brand new baby.  Even though I have more confidence in this area than Michael, it will be good for both of us.  This class is going to teach things like diaper changing, burping, soothing techniques, bathing, and more.

3D/4D Ultrasound

Honestly, I have never been much of a fan of the 3D/4D ultrasounds.  I tend to think they all look like aliens.  Some of them are down right creepy if you ask me.  We have had many many friends rave about them and tell us that it is a must.  I was never really all that convinced.

Tina Fey was on Conan recently and here's what she had to say about it...
(Sorry about the commercial before the clip.  Also, I couldn't find a smaller version, so part of the picture is cut off.  It's just Conan.  You don't need to see him anyway! :)


Funny, huh?  Well, from the very beginning Michael has talked about wanting to get one.  How can I stand in the way of a father wanting to see his little girl?! :)  Actually, after the last ultrasound and seeing that it looked like we  could pick out a few features, I was sort of looking forward to it.  I went into it hoping that when it's your own child it doesn't look as creepy.

The pictures weren't as creepy as some I've seen.  The video was a little creepy to me... even though it was my daughter.  It's just the nature of the ultrasound.  Like Tina said, you aren't meant to see in there yet.  It's not cooked! :)

Anyway, we went yesterday.  Here are the highlights:

The tech commented on her cheeks almost right away.  I said she comes by them honestly. :)

Like with every other ultrasound we've had, her hand was up by her face.  She would not move it for anything!  She wasn't sucking on her thumb or fingers.  She just liked to have her face covered.  I said that she was going to be "shy" like Michael.  He said he was just thinking the same thing.

Her foot is up near her face too.  She is literally folded in half.

Check out that pout!

This picture cracks me up!  On the video you can see that she is yawning, but in this photo it looks to me like she is in shock or saying something like "Oh my!".

 Such a scowl!  It's amazing to me the facial expressions they can have at this point.

Michael is convinced she has my nose.

We got a smile!  It may be my smile!  Sometimes when I smile, for whatever reason, the edges of my mouth turn down.  I never really noticed it until I married Michael.  He pointed it out.  He thinks it's funny.  He calls it my "frown smile".  He's also the one that noticed in this picture that Olivia has a frown smile.  Crack me up!

We still think she has Michael's chin.

This is the second time we've got a cool foot picture.  The tech said her foot is right up against me and anytime I am feeling kicks on the right side it is definitely her feet.  (That after I told her what the mean ultrasound lady at my doctor's office said.)  I'm wondering if we will ever get to make out that it's a foot from the outside.  I think the way she has it now, it could be a possibility.

Sticking her tongue out a little?  Her heart rate was 140 beats per minute, which is good.

The tech said everything looked good.  She said my fluid level were good, the baby looked great, and that she was definitely facing down.  She said she will most likely not turn at this point.  She said that she could, but it would be a lot of work for her.

This the last time we'll be seeing her.  The next time will be in 9(ish) weeks when she is on the outside!

Finding a Pediatrician

Can I just say that until about 4 months ago I had no idea you had to choose a pediatrician before you gave birth.  I had no clue you couldn't leave the hospital without one.  I guess it makes sense though.  It's just not one of those things people talk about when having a baby.  They talk about the pain and medication vs natural and having a birth plan.

Let me tell you that from the moment I found out I was suppose to do this, I have been dreading it.  I don't know why.  I'm sort of like that with things like that.  I don't like making business type phone calls.  I hate it actually.  I try to get Michael to make as many of the calls as possible.

That being said, I've sort of been dragging my feet on the whole issue.  Like if I just ignored it, it might go away! ha! :)  I finally decided about two weeks ago that I probably should get on it.  I didn't want to end up having the doctor of my choice not available because all the new client spots got filled.  The hospital had given us a list of pediatricians that had privileges there.  Going off of that list, I highlighted all the ones that were in my specific city and were also a woman.  Say what you will, but I really wanted a woman doctor.  Then I started researching them on the internet.

There are all sorts of questions floating around out there that you are suppose to ask a potential pediatrician.  Again, I had no clue that people actually went and interviewed 4 or 5 pediatricians.  That's actually the recommendation.  Um, no.  I don't think so.  I don't even want to interview one, let alone four or five.  (Some baby websites actually have interview sheets you can print off!?!)  The questions are all valid--do you take after hour calls? do you charge for said calls? is there a separate sick waiting room vs well visit waiting room? do you have weekend hours? are calls returned the same day? And on and on we go.  Don't get me wrong.  The person that will be taking care of my child and helping me make medical decisions is important to me.  I just think, for the most part, all doctors have the same sort of policies... with very minor variations.  It's going to come down to bed side manner, do your personalities click, etc.

There was really only ONE thing I cared about in the whole decision making process.  I want to do a delayed vaccine schedule.  I've heard and read a lot about it, and I thought most doctors were willing to work with you (the parent) on this issue.  WRONG!  I had no idea how controversial or against this idea some doctors are.  I know a lot of people who have done this with their children.  I thought it was becoming more of the norm.  As I began to research doctor after doctor, I saw that immunization was most definitely a hot topic.  I already knew that.  Unfortunately, the hot topic was not leaning in the way that I wanted to go.  Some doctors were very blunt on their websites.  They would only follow the traditional schedule.  Some flat out said they wouldn't see unimmunized patients. (It is not the law that you have to be immunized, so this kind of was crazy to me.)

Wow.  That sort of narrowed it down.  So I began a nice little google search trying to find a doctor in my area willing to do the delayed vaccine schedule.  One name kept popping up.  It's actually a doctor that was already recommended to me by someone at the church.  I was sort of trying to avoid her because she is a holistic doctor.  The lady that recommended her said, "Sometimes I get frustrated with her because I just want her to give my kid an antibiotic and she sends me to the health food store."  This is not exactly what I had in mind.  As I researched though, more and more people kept recommending her.

It came down to... deal with her holistic ways and be allowed to do a delayed vaccine schedule, OR go to a "regular" pediatrician and do a regular vaccine schedule.  Some may call me crazy, but I really do believe that there is a link between vaccines and autism.  Not that everyone who gets a vaccine will get it, but that if you have immune system issues you are susceptible.  Even if you do have a normal immune system, the amount of junk going into a small babies body at one time is just too much.  I really don't care what ANYONE says.  Those are my opinions and they will not change.  (Especially not after physically seeing a normal talking, laughing, making eye contact little boy get vaccinated and come to my 2 year old class a few months later banging his head against the wall, screaming and not saying a word.)

Plus, I also believe that food can play a part in a child's behavior.  This doctor won't prescribe ADD/ADHD medication until an alternative diet has been tried.  As a knowledgeable teacher, I can respect that.  I have also heard stories (followed a blog) where food dyes drastically changed a child's behavior (if allergic, but generally the behavior is blamed on other things).  I think I'm well enough informed that I'm willing to give this doctor a try.  I'd much rather try alternative ways to helping my child then to just shove them full of medication every time something comes up.  I don't think of myself as a hippie, but I do consider myself reserved when it comes to medical interventions.  I feel like medication is handed out left and right to kids these days and sometimes it's just not necessary.

All that to say... we went to a meet and greet for new patients yesterday and we now have a (holistic) pediatrician! :)  I actually liked everything she had to say, not just the delayed vaccination part.  If using garlic oil drops cures ear infections, then why not try that over antibiotics (which really aren't good for kids) or eventual tubes?  I also didn't know that the root of things like ear infections, eczema, etc. could possibly be traced to undetected food allergies.  The more I sat there and listened to what she had to say (some of which are things I have been saying for years but are on the "controversial" side and some of which I had no clue since I'm a first time mom), the more at peace I felt.

Not only does she do a delayed vaccine schedule, but she doesn't just follow the one in Dr. Sears' book (in which she is one of the five Dr.'s in Texas he recommends).  She will individualize it based on your child, your family history, your wishes and concerns, etc.  If you want to follow the traditional method, she will do that.  If you want to opt out of vaccines all together, then she is alright with that too.  If you want to wait on a certain vaccine, she's alright with that as well.  Someone asked about the MMR shot.  It is one of the most controversial shots out there because it is the first live virus put into a child.  It is the one that is suspected for causing autism.  There were rumors that you could get it split (and I've actually read people say they did), but she said she doesn't think that it's going to happen anytime soon.  She did say that she will not give it with any other shot (it's usually given with like 4 or 5 other ones--ridiculous!).  She also said she won't give it before the age of 2, but usually not until the age of 3 when everything is developed as it should be.  It's usually given around age 1.  Someone asked if there was ever a time she gave it at age 1.  She said, "No, not since I gave it to a little boy who walked into my office on his own, with big bright eyes, smiling and giggling, and literally couldn't walk out and became autistic."  WOW!  You don't hear many doctors admitting that.  She said he ran a 105 fever for days, lost all milestones he had reached, and they immediately took him to a detox center to flush what they could out of his system.  After some intervention, he is apparently fine today. THAT is why I won't give my kids the traditional shot schedule.  Honestly, it's lucky we are giving our kids shots at all!

She was a traditional pediatrician back in the day.  She did that for a while and then had her own health issues.  After 9 neck and back surgeries and getting breast cancer, all in her 30's, she changed her approach.  She is a Christian, and she says she believes those things happened for her to be on this path that she believes God wants her to be on.  We got in the car an hour later and Michael said, "I'm sold".  That pretty much sums it up.  I feel really good about it.  All my worries about being sent to the health food store for remedies went out the window.  I am not one to just blindly follow or listen to what a doctor has to say.  People forget that they are human too... and sometimes they base things on their opinions or they blindly follow whatever is being told to them.  I am not a trained doctor.  I realize that.  But I also have opinions, life experiences, and enough sense to sometimes question what is being said.  I already had plans to buck the system in some ways, but I don't feel like I'll have to be doing much of that with this doctor. :)

Side note: I once again recommend you read Jenny McCarthy's books on autism if you haven't yet.  Some of the facts are staggering.  Even if you are past the point of concern for your own children, it's good to know what other parents are going through.

30 Weeks

Does the outfit look familiar?  It's what I wore to my baby shower.  We had a cooler Sunday and I figured I better wear that jean jacket as much as I can!  I bought it just for the shower, and I'm running out of long sleeve type days! :)


How far along: 30 weeks

Is it just me, or does 30 seem like a big number!  I feel like it's some sort of milestone.  I don't know what kind of milestone exactly, but it is one in my head! :)  Only 10 more weeks to go! (If she comes on her due date, which I know is unlikely but all I have to go on.)

Size of baby: for weeks 29 to 32 the baby is the size of a squash

Average size is 15.2-16.7 inches and between 2.5 to 3.8 pounds

Total weight gain/loss: It was up and down and all around this week, but as of yesterday it was at +20.6 (same as last week)

Maternity clothes: Yes!  Right now my biggest issue is that most of my shoes don't fit.  Some of my flip flops are even too tight.  I'll probably end up buying a few cheap flip flops in a bigger size.  Then after the baby comes and all the swelling goes down, I'll reassess the foot situation.  I don't think I'll complain if I have to go out and buy all new shoes. :)

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: All the time!  She might be a night owl like her daddy!  Lately, she has decided that midnight is a good time to have a dance party in my belly.  A serious dance party at that!

Sleep: My sleep was a little jacked up this week, but it wasn't necessarily from being pregnant.  I am adjusting to Michael's new work schedule.  He gets off at 11:30, so that puts him home around 11:45.  Some nights I waited up for him (even though I should have been in bed!).  Other nights I tried to go to bed, but couldn't really fall asleep.  I think one night I actually did fall asleep before he got home.  But then, no matter if I've slept or not, I lay there talking to him for at least another half hour.  The naps have definitely returned to my daytime schedule!  Plus, I think the third trimester tiredness is starting to appear as well.

What I miss: wearing my wedding rings!  I've been rocking a fake $16 band of cubic zirconia for about a month now.  I tend to retain water and my hands and feet swell in the heat even when I am not pregnant (thanks Mom!).  So the swelling started early for me.  It's not terrible yet.  It's usually worse first thing in the morning and then sometimes at night.  I've heard nightmarish stories about people having to have their wedding bands cut off.  I didn't want to risk it.  Seeing as Miss Olivia is going to be born in the blazing heat of a Texas summer, I'm suspecting that I won't be able to put my rings back on until September!


Cravings: sweets, fruit--I'm glad the good stuff is coming into season

Symptoms: I have a hard time bending over, I am starting to have to pee A TON (and I thought I already was going a lot!), tiredness, and sometimes a sore back

Fun Purchases: I got a few Target gift cards, so I went ahead and ordered the 2 extra car seat bases that we need (one for Michael's car and one for my work car).  I also ordered a few things from Amazon (that probably could have waited, but I couldn't help it).  I got a few of the Praise Baby DVD's, a diaper bag, and another decorative piece for the nursery.

Surprises: hmm... I can't think of anything for this week

Best Moment this week: Being told by the Dr. that I am measuring right on track.  Really, I was worried!  Ever since I heard she was (an estimated) 2 pounds 11 ounces at 27 weeks, I feared I was going to measure ahead.  Of course, that could change at any minute.  For right now, I am happy.

Milestones: 10 weeks to go!

Dr. News

Well, I don't have much to report from the doctor.  One, because I'm never told anything! :)  But really, and most importantly, because everything is going good.  Thank the Lord!

* I did ask about taking the iron and thyroid medication together.  She said it's not a problem.  She did say, however, that my levels will continue to be watched and if it looks like they are canceling each other out... or the levels aren't where they should be... then we will change things up.

* My belly is measuring right at 30 weeks, and since I will be 30 weeks on Sunday, she said that is perfectly fine/normal.  I said I was concerned about having a big baby and she said everything is normal as of right now.

* We did get to listen to the heartbeat.  She didn't tell us the beats per minute this time, but she said it sounded good and that Olivia sounded happy. :)

*She checked in with me on feeling movements, but still no mention of kick counts.  I did read someone say that you only have to do them if you haven't felt the baby in a long time.  I feel her all throughout the day and night, so I'm not really worried.

* She also asked if I had been feeling tightening in my stomach (contractions, or Braxton Hicks).  She said it's normal and that I should be feeling them.  However, if I feel them more than 4 times an hour I need to empty my bladder, drink some water, and and lay down to rest.  She said if it keeps up, then call her.  I have noticed that a full bladder (or even what feels like a full one, but may not really be full) is the biggest culprit for me when it comes to BH.

That's about the extent of it.  I did the normal things--weighed in, peed in a cup and had my blood pressure taken.  Nothing was said about any of those though, so I guess all is good.  My next appointment is May 11th.  I literally sit in the waiting room longer than my actual appointment takes!  Again, I'm not complaining.  I am grateful for a healthy baby and an (overall) easy pregnancy!

29 Weeks

 I think I need to find a new spot for my bump pictures.  My bump keeps getting lost in the subwoofer! :)


How far along: 29 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 29 to 32 (month 7) the baby is the size of a squash

Average size is 15.2-16.7 inches and between 2.5 to 3.8 pounds

Total weight gain/loss: +20.6

Maternity clothes: I'm still rotating the maternity clothes I have.  Right now the t-shirts, capris, leggings, tunics and skirts are perfect.  All EVERYONE says is how hot it is going to get, so I'm sure I'll be moving into sundresses and shorts soon.

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: She's on the move--all the time!  It's getting stronger all the time too.

Sleep: It's somewhat of the same: it takes me a bit to get comfortable, I get up every two hours to pee, but I'm still sleeping pretty good.  My back has good days and bad days when waking up! :)

What I miss: sleeping on my stomach, not having to pee all the time!, getting off the couch easily, bending over easily :)


Cravings: sweets

Symptoms: the usual pregnancy things... back ache, sometimes uncomfortable, swollen or sore feet

Fun Purchases: I had planned to go to Babies R Us to get a basket (I got three of the four at my shower) and some scent free dryer sheets.  I asked the guy at the desk if it was possible to get my completion coupon early.  He said yes and printed me out a 15% off coupon.  (Some places only get 10%?!).  The coupon can only be used once, so I decided to go ahead and use it.  I printed off my registry and then filled my cart with some of the "must have" or "really want" items off our registry that I didn't get at my shower.  I didn't buy everything.  I figured some things could wait until after she arrived.  That way we could see if we really needed them.  I did get a good bit though.  I didn't get my completion coupon from Target yet, but I did pick up a few things from there as well.  It was mostly just stuff I needed to get the room really ready (mattress pad covers, a pack of newborn diapers, etc).

Surprises: My friend Wendy, who use to be my team teacher, emailed me right before I went to Ohio for the shower.  She has 2 little girls, one 4 and one 10 months.  She said that she was going through things and thought of me.  They are done having kids, and everyone else she knows is either having boys or just had a boy.  She said she was blessed by many people who passed things along to her that she didn't get at her shower and she wanted to bless us the same.  She gave me two big boxes full of clothes and other items that hadn't been purchased off of our registry (boppy, boppy covers, snuggle me for car seat, etc.).  Remember, her youngest is only 10 months, so she only gave me clothes up to 9 months old... and it was a TON!  :)  We won't have to buy any baby clothes for a long time.  It was truly a blessing.

Best Moment this week: Having everything we need for Olivia's arrival feels pretty good.  I've been working on and off all week washing baby clothes, folding baby clothes, and finding places for baby items.  Hopefully everything will have a place soon!

Milestones: I'm in my 7th month!!

Funny: I thought this was funny--there were two things I read repeatedly (and was told by friends and family) NOT to register for.  Everyone said you don't need to register for receiving blankets or bibs because everyone thinks those kind of things are cute and will buy you them anyway.  I didn't get ONE receiving blanket or ONE bib (except maybe a cutsie one that went with an outfit).  Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining!  We have plenty of blankets and swaddlers, and I have picked up a bib here and a bib there over the past few months.  We are not in need.  I just thought it was hilarious how different my shower was compared to what everyone said.  People really did stick to the registry for the most part (which is great!).

Upcoming dates:
*My next Dr.'s appointment is on the 27th
*We are attending our hospitals child birthing class on May 7th and 8th.

28 Weeks

How far along: 28 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 25 to 28 the baby is the size of an eggplant

Total weight gain/loss: I wasn't home on Sunday ("official weigh in day") to use my own scale.  Plus, I wasn't eating normal for the past few days.  I decided I'm not weighing in again until next Sunday.  So... no weight to report this week. :)

Maternity clothes: maternity clothes--I had to break out the long sleeve shirts and pants for my trip to Ohio.  My feet have definitely grown though, so flip flops are about all that fit now.

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: Lots.  I think I'm suppose to start doing kick counts or something--my doctor hasn't said a thing, but according to what I've read it's suppose to start happening this week.

Sleep: I have a really hard time getting comfortable and sometimes it takes me a looong time to fall asleep, but once I actually fall asleep I sleep pretty good.  I don't sleep much past 8 hours (even when I can sleep in) because my aching back wakes me.

What I miss: sleeping on my stomach, not having to pee all the time!, getting off the couch easily, bending over easily :)


Cravings: Again, not really "cravings", but I got to eat a few of the foods I've been wanting or missing... Max and Erma's tortilla soup, Raising Canes Chicken (mostly for the sauce), cheesecake!!!

Symptoms: swollen ankles/hands/feet, shortness of breath (which I heard could be from lack of iron), back pain, trouble getting comfortable-even when just sitting.  I also got emotional when Michael dropped me off at the airport.  I would definitely chalk that up to pregnancy hormones.  Even though I love my husband and would miss him dearly, I wouldn't normally cry.  I started feeling sad/emotional about it as I was packing the day before I left.  I held it together while he actually said good bye, but then cried on my way to the terminal and at the terminal.

Surprises:  I PASSED my glucose test!!!  WOO HOO!!!!!  I am seriously shocked.  I don't know why.  I don't eat terrible.  I just figured that since I had a family history and was over weight and over 30 that it was going to be a given.  I never heard from the doctor, so I called yesterday to ask if "no news was good news".  The lady checked and said I did just fine.  She said the cut off was 139 (or 136, can't remember) and mine was at 123 so I was doing "just fine".  I wasn't even borderline!! I'm so happy!

Fun Purchases: nothing!  I was waiting until after my shower to see what I got.

Other: I mentioned it last week, but I am really frustrated with my doctor's office.  My doctor is sweet, but a little scatter brained it seems.  Anytime someone asks who my doctor is and I say her name I get rave reviews.  There were rave reviews on the internet, which is why I went to her in the first place.  I just feel like I'm not getting enough information or something.  Plus, some of the office staff isn't the friendliest.  There have been a few other incidents too (like not calling me to tell me my thyroid was out of whack and I needed on medication asap!).  I'm so thankful for websites like the bump, books to read, and friends and family to get information from.  If it wasn't for that, I'd be lost.  Sometimes it feels like the bump is more my doctor than my doctor is! :)  Maybe it's because I'm having a relatively easy pregnancy.  No questions or problems equals no information?!?  Or maybe it's because other people don't read and gather information so they ask a ton of questions.  I'm just always seeing phrases like " My doctor said" or "My doctor told me".  My doctor isn't telling me a darn thing!  At this point, I'm not sure I'll be going back to her for future births.  We'll see how the next 12 weeks (and the birth) play out.

Dr. News: On Wednesday I told you about my doctor's appointment.  Wednesday afternoon I got a call from the doctor saying my iron levels were low, so they needed to call in a prescription for me.  I've asked about my iron levels in the past and they were always good, so this must be new.  I am now taking some sort of supplement.  This doesn't really surprise me (like the thyroid meds).  About every other time I try to give blood, I am turned away for having iron levels that are too low.  I'll take low iron over Gestational Diabetes any day! :)

My trip to Ohio was great.  My shower was wonderful.  I was very blessed and had a great time with friends and family.  More about that later this week!