Monday, July 4, 2011

The Birth Story

Some people find birth stories interesting.  Some people find them a little creepy.  If you are of the latter in your feelings, then please skip this post. :)  I always liked reading and watching other people's birth stories, but didn't think I'd be into writing my own to share.  Mostly I liked reading and watching as a way of learning.  Now, I feel like sharing mine.  One reason I want to share it is just to document it for my own sake. Hopefully some of you will enjoy it as well.  If you followed Michael's updates on facebook, some of this will be familiar.  Although, he wasn't allowed to put everything! :)

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 22nd

10:00-I checked in to the hospital and was taken to room 6 in labor and delivery.

I was assessed, asked a bazillion questions, given many papers to sign, hooked up to blood pressure monitor, and poked (numerous times on both arms) to get my IV in.

11:10- I was checked (still 2 cm and thick) and given a dose of cytotec.  I was hooked up to the baby monitor and the contraction monitor.   I also had to have five things of  blood drawn.

12:00- Things finally settled down and I was told to get some sleep.  The nurse said that if I wasn't asleep by 12:30 that she'd like to give me some ambien.  We tried to settle in the best we could.  My blood pressure cuff was going off every 15 minutes.  I couldn't get comfortable with the monitors.  Every time I moved the monitor would lose the heartbeat.

1:00- I decided to go ahead and call for the ambien.  I knew I needed to sleep and what I was doing was not working.  I made sure though, that it wasn't going to dope me up for too long and make me drowsy when I needed to be alert.  The nurse assured me that it only lasted about 4 hours and I would be fine.

Thankfully, we got a couple of hours of sleep.  The nurses did have to come in every now and then to adjust things, help hook things back up after bathroom use, and take vitals.  Every time a nurse came in they said how "happy" the baby was.  One nurse said her heart rate was textbook good.

6:00- We were up around 6.  Michael got breakfast and I got a popsicle.

7:20- I was checked by a nurse and was still between 2 and 3, but my cervix was thinning nicely.  I was to get pitocin started soon.

8:00- I got the pitocin and braced myself for the pain.  I had read, heard, and seen that pitocin usually brings on your contractions fast and strong.  I felt nothing.  I had another popsicle. :)  I was told I'd be checked again in another 2 to 4 hours, depending on how things go.  Michael messed around with his electronics and I read some magazines.

9:30- I got up to pee and decided to stand for a few contractions.  I figured I'd let gravity take its course.  I wasn't in pain that much, but I had heard different positions helped so I figured I'd give it a try.  Unfortunately, for the 15 to 20 minutes I stood I had two not so good blood pressure reads.  I was told that was the end of my standing.




























11:10- My doctor came to check me and to break my water.  This was by far the most painful thing of the entire labor!  I think it's just my doctor.  I had been checked in her office by her nurse practitioner at one appointment.  While it wasn't pleasant, it wasn't unbearable.  I had also been checked by two different nurses while in the hospital.  It was pretty much the same.  My doctor checked me (for the first time) the morning I went in to the hospital and it was rough.  She checked me this time and it was AWFUL.  I ended up crying.  She also broke my water, but I felt nothing.  Someone asked me if I had a lot of fluid.  I honestly felt none.  I was so overtaken by the pain of the check.  My doctor asked if I was nervous (since I was crying) and I said no that it just HURT!  She said that would be the worst of it, but that I should probably call for the epidural.  I had been asked all day if I wanted it.  I didn't want to get it too early and at that point it had just been some cramping.  I decided to go ahead and get the epidural.

11:45- It didn't take long for the anesthesiologist to come.  I was starting to get a little more uncomfortable, but it wasn't terrible.  I knew that since my water had been broken that it could get worse though, so I was OK with getting it.  This was the second worse thing about labor.  Seriously.  I have seen a bajillion baby shows.  They always say, "You'll feel a bee sting and that's the worst". Lies.  I really am not a wimp.  I felt the bee sting and the burn.  Then the guy kept pricking me and I felt each prick twinge my nerves--if that makes sense.  He kept asking "Does this feel too much to the right?  Too much to the left?"  Ok, really?  I don't even know how many times he poked me, but each poke hurt.  Also, I didn't really enjoy him asking me if he was too far to the right while he was poking a giant needle into my spine!  My blood pressure jumped to 177/102. YIKES!

12:00- The epidural was in.  I was happy to have that behind me.  Michael ate lunch.  I ate a popsicle.  After that, I was able to rest some.

2:00- The nurse was having a hard time tracking my contractions with the monitor around my belly.  She decided to have one of the internal monitors placed.  The head nurse had to do it.  While she put it in, she checked me.  I was a solid 4 cm.  The nurse put me in the "move the baby fast" position, which consisted of laying on my side with one leg up in a stir up.  I laid on my left side for a half hour.

2:30- The nurse came in and switched sides.  Michael had to help move me.  I was pretty numb.

2:45- I started having pain in my hip.  I couldn't feel my right leg, but I could feel my left leg (up in the stir up) and my hip was getting more and more uncomfortable.  When the nurse came in I told her that I didn't think I could keep it up in the stir up much longer.  I was worried that the epidural was only working on one side.  She assured me this was not the case.  She flipped me back to the other side and told me to repeatedly hit the epidural button.  She said after a little while my left side would be numb again.

3:30- Apparently I had a two and a half minute contraction, but I didn't feel a thing.  The nurse came in and turned the pitocin down some.  (She had been slowly turning it up all day.)

5:00-The nurse came in to check me.  I asked what she thought I might be and she said she was hoping I was at least at 6 cm.  I was sort of thinking the same thing.  She checked and said, "You're complete".  Now, I've seen my fair share of baby shows.  In my head I knew what she meant, but I just didn't believe it.  I said, "What?  What do you mean?"  She said, "You're complete"  I said, "As in I'm ten centimeters?!" and she said yes!  Holy cow!  I went from 4 to a 10 in 3 hours.  Olivia was still pretty high though, so she said she was going to let me lay there for another hour and see if she dropped any.

6:00- She came back in to check.  I was still at a minus 3 station and needed to get to a plus 5!  She wanted me to practice pushing to see what would happen.  My legs were literally numb as numb could be.  I pushed a few times.  She said I was pushing her down to about a 0 station, but that she was going right back up.  She went ahead and starting getting things ready around the room.  Every so often she'd come back and have me push a few times and see what was happening.

6:30- I had tried to push a few times at this point.  Nothing major.  I was basically at 0 station now.  Half way through a push it went something like this, "3...4...5...6...Holy cow she has a lot of hair...7..."  I lost my breath after six when she said that.  We did a quick chuckle and then went back to pushing.  She also told us that she had a pretty good cone head going on.  I'm wondering if it was from her dropping so fast... or her not dropping and me pushing her out anyway. 
The nurse continued to do stuff on the computer, get things ready around the room, and go out to the nurses station to do whatever she was doing.

6:40- I made a comment about maybe having Olivia at the same time I was born (7:09pm).  The nurse said she didn't think I'd go that fast.  I was still at 0 station.

6:50- She had me push a few more times.  I wasn't really feeling anything, so I didn't mind.  7 o'clock was going to be a shift change, so the new nurses came in.  We all sort of chatted about what was going on.  They got up to speed and did their "nurse" thing.  Then they decided to have me push again.  The entire time I was doing my "practice" pushes, everyone kept saying over and over that I was a really good pusher.  It felt kind of weird.  Like I should say "thank you".  One or two times, alright... I had three different nurses saying it over and over and over.

We took another break. 

7:00- They let my doctor know it wouldn't be long.  My day nurse said she'd stay until 7:30 (even though she was off at 7). 

7:05- My doctor came in the room.  There was more chit chatting.  She even took a phone call about another patient (yeah, weird).  She got her thing in place.

7:15- I started pushing for real...only taking a break for the next contraction.  After one contraction my doctor asked "Do you want to feel the head?"  I said, "NO!"  Everyone laughed and one of the nurses said, "That was her only birth plan... that she didn't want to be asked to feel the head".  Oh well. 

7:21- She was born!!!!  I literally pushed for 4 contractions and she was out.  I didn't feel a thing... just a little pressure.  I felt her come out, but it didn't hurt at all.















That's all for now!  More birth pictures next time.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Nursery, Part 4

 The nursery is done and ready.

We've only added a few things.

I was on the hunt for a cute picture frame for the small shelf.  I had in mind what I wanted, but either couldn't find it or would find something that was way overpriced.  I didn't want a plain old frame.  I wanted something crafty looking...maybe something that said "Bless this child" or something.  I didn't want anything that was specifically baby.  I wanted it to be able to grow with her.  Well, that mission failed.

But....... I found this
Perfect!

I also ordered this because I love Willow Tree

When my friend Laurie stayed with us, we realized that we needed a clock in there for when the room is used as a guest room.  Both Michael and I had alarm clocks, so for a while we just put Michael's in there.  I was roaming the aisles of Hobby Lobby (looking for a frame) and found this

The whole dresser

 We also used a gift card to buy a hamper.  I had registered for one.  I went to buy it and it was gone.  I wanted a basket looking one, but I couldn't find what I wanted.  I ended up going with this.
Originally I thought these kind were gross.  You put puked, pooped and peed on clothes in there.  Why would you use cloth?  Then I found out it had a net in it.  That made me feel a little better.

Ready and waiting

I recently got a very nice package from my college roommate.
It had cherry blossom pictures for the nursery!
Her boyfriend is a photographer, so he took these for us.
They are shimmery, so it was hard to get a picture.  You can click on the photo to enlarge it.

We're done!

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Dr.'s Appointment

(Written Wednesday afternoon)

Most of you already know, but for those of you who don't... I am currently in the hospital being induced.

I went to my doctor's appointment on Wednesday morning.  My blood pressure was 128/88, which I thought was good.  Apparently the nurses and doctor didn't, because I heard them talking about it in the hall.  She had me lay down and then came back in to take it and it was 128/86, so it didn't go down much after laying down.

I did a non stress test and Olivia was moving all over the place.  Both the nurse and doctor said (at separate times) how "happy" she was.  Michael and I thought it looked like she was trying to kick of the monitor. :)

My doctor came in and checked me.  I was 2 cm, but my cervix was still thick.  She asked me how I felt about having a baby tomorrow.  That wasn't in my box of options, so it took me off guard for a moment.  I told her that I was ready, so if she thought that was best then I was fine with that.

She said there was protein in my urine. So I went from no protein a few appointments ago, to traces of protein last time (which I didn't know about), to +1 this time--or something like that.  She said that I was basically 38 weeks and she felt good about delivering a 38 week old baby.  She said she'd rather get me delivered now, since we know where things are headed, then wait until next week and then I get sick (because of preeclampsia) and have complications.

We were told to arrive at the hospital at 10 o'clock Wednesday night to get a cervix ripening medication.  Depending on how that goes, I will be given pitocin in this morning to get things rolling.

I have a blog scheduled for tomorrow.  After that, I'm not sure when I'll be on here.  I hope to get pictures of Olivia up as soon as possible! :) 

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Prepared (or nesting?)

This list has been in the works for about 3 months.  Seriously.
Yep, I'm that crazy.
 
Behind this list you will find 3 pages of neatly written out recipes.  These are the recipes that go with the meals labeled "easy to make meals".  That way they are handy for Michael or my mom--instead of trying to send them to the right cook book.

I made this list for 3 reasons.
1. Pregnancy brain has already got the best of me, and I imagine the lack of sleep that is coming is not going to have me thinking straight either.
2.  Michael is an incredible help (pregnant or not), but he doesn't always know what the options are.  Sometimes (both pre-pregnancy and pregnant) I am so drained that I ask him to make dinner.  He is willing, but then he wants me to tell him what to make.  One of the main reasons I don't want to make dinner is because I don't want to have to think about it and decide--so this helps us both.  I don't have to have a plan and he can easily look at what is available and choose.
3. My mom is coming to stay with us for a bit and this way she can see what there is to eat and I don't have to worry about feeding a baby and a mother.

Almost everything on the list is stuff we have on hand.  Like I said, I've been planning, preparing and mapping out the list for months now.  Michael will have to make a quick grocery store shop after the birth for things like milk, fresh fruit, and bakery items (buns, etc) that wouldn't last.  Other than that, we are set!

Also, people from church are going to be bringing us meals at first too.  I think we'll be covered for a while! :)

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Skillet Lasagna

Here is another meal I made to freeze.  I've had this recipe for years.  I'm pretty sure I got it from my sister who got it from some online search she did.

What you need:
1 lb lean ground beef
2 cups cottage cheese or ricotta*
1 tsp salt
1 (10oz) jar spaghetti sauce**
3 cups mini lasagna noodles***
2 cups shredded mozzarella cheese
2 tsp parsley flakes

*I honestly can't remember what I normally make this with.  The recipe said cottage cheese and then ricotta was in parentheses.  Normally, whatever is in parentheses is what my sister suggested, so it's what I used.  I bought ricotta, but as I was making it I was thinking that I'm pretty sure I usually use cottage cheese.  I guess you can use either.

**10 ounces is NOT enough.  I use an entire jar.  Also, depending on what flavor of sauce I get, I sometimes add garlic or garlic powder to spice it up a bit.

***I have never found mini lasagna noodles.  I just use curly noodles.

Brown ground beef in large skillet, drain excess fat.
Add spaghetti sauce, salt, noodles, cottage cheese and parsley flakes.
Yes, dry uncooked noodles!

Stir

Cover and simmer for 20 to 25 minutes, stirring occasionally until the noodles are done.  (You may have to cook longer--it depends on the noodles you use.  Make sure to taste test one before you move on to the next step.  Sometimes I turn the heat up a little hotter than "simmer".)

Sprinkle with cheese
Cover and let stand for 10 minutes with the heat turned off.

Mmmm... look at that cheesy goodness!

Warning:  It makes a lot!

Monday, June 20, 2011

37 Weeks

 Don't get in a tizzy--I didn't get dressed up and go to church yesterday.  This was snapped right after getting home from my hair appointment on Saturday.  I wore the dress because it was 103 degrees out and it was airy and easy.  I didn't think I'd be looking too presentable on Sunday so I thought ahead.  I don't think I look like I dropped...  What do you think?


How far along: 37 weeks

Size of baby: for weeks 37 to delivery (month 9) the baby is the size of a watermelon
Average size is 18.9 to 20.9 inches and 6.2 to 9.2 pounds.

Total weight gain/loss: +31.2

Gender: It's a girl!  Olivia Grace is on her way!

Movement: big and strong!

Sleep: Once I get to sleep I'm alright, but the first hour or two is rough.  Now that I'm on bed rest, I expect that sleep will get better.  I can nap here and there and go to bed when I'm tired instead of when I feel I should because I have to get up for work.

What I miss: being comfortable... doing things easily

Cravings: watermelon, jello, dessert (any kind really)

Symptoms: swelling!!! high blood pressure :(

Fun Purchases: We bought the last piece of the nursery puzzle... post coming soon.

Surprises: getting put on bed rest--I guess it's not a huge surprise, but I sort of thought that I would get the "take it as easy as you can" talk and that would be it.  I'm very surprised there was talk of moving the induction up.  I didn't expect that.

What I'm looking forward to: getting this show on the road and meeting my daughter

Milestones: I'm FULL TERM!!!!!!!!!!!

Birth plan: From the beginning I didn't really feel the need to have a birth plan.  Personally, I think they are a little silly.  I might not know a lot about giving birth (yet), but I do know from years of watching baby shows on TV that it is very unpredictable.  I didn't want to sit and write out the things I did and didn't want.  Ultimately, I want what what is best for the baby and I.  Everyone pretty much says the same thing... "I don't want an episiotomy", or "I didn't want any medical intervention" or "I don't want a c-section".  Almost always the thing the mom really didn't want is exactly what had to happen.  Why set myself up for failure?  Why waste my time planning something out that can't really be planned?  I asked my doctor if I needed one and she laughed it off and said no.  She said they joke in the office that the woman that come in with the five page birth plans are almost always the ones who end up going in for a last minute c-section (Murphy's law?).  Usually you or your husband can just relay to the nurse what is going on.  (Now, if my hospital gave the baby the Hep B shot, I would make sure to have it in writing that we did not want it.  However, my hospital doesn't do it, so I don't have to worry about it.)

I told my doctor that I understood--especially with an induction-- that anything can happen and it's best to be flexible.  I said the only thing I had to say was, I didn't want to be told to feel the babies head as she comes out.  I don't want to "catch" her either.  Let me do what I need to do and I will appreciate her when she is laying on my stomach.  There is no need for mirrors or hands to be touching half out gooey heads!  Also, I told her that I wasn't going to be one of those women that cry if I have to go for a c-section.  It doesn't scare me.  I know that with induction there is a higher rate of needing a c-section (because you are trying to make your body do something it wasn't ready for).  I've seen a lot of baby shows lately where the women are dead set on not getting a c-section.  They end up in labor for 56...68...72 hours (and sometimes have to get a c-section anyway).  I do not want that.  Don't drag this thing out for days.  If it's not working... if I'm not progressing as I should... just take me and cut me open.  Seriously.  She said that was good to know.  She said obviously if the baby is in distress it's a no-brainer.  She said she will be honest with me.  If she thinks it can happen but is just taking a while, then she'll tell me.  If she assesses me and doesn't think it will happen, then she will tell me that too.

Other: My next (and last!) doctor's appointment is Wednesday morning.  I fully intend on taking all hospital bags with us just in case.  You never know when you can get sent straight to the hospital for induction!  Oh, and I'm eating a HUGE breakfast before too--just in case! :)

ONE WEEK LEFT!!!!!!
(maybe)

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Happy Father's Day!

Besides Michael, I don't think there are too many men hanging out here on my blog.  Just in case there is--Happy Father's Day!

I got Michael a gift for Father's Day.  It was in the works for months.  Before we left Columbus in December I thought it would be a good idea to stock up on some Ohio State baby clothes.  The only problem was I didn't know if we were having a girl or a boy. The girl stuff was super cute.  The boy stuff was pretty cute as well.  The gender neutral stuff was just "eh".  I decided to wait.

So when I went back to Ohio for my shower, my sister and I hit the mall.  One of my first stops was the Buckeye store to get Michael's gift.  The girl stuff was SO cute that I couldn't decide... so I got two.

A cheerleader outfit (size 3 to 6 months)
and this fun polo dress (size 12 months)

Even though we don't have an "outside" baby yet, Michael is already a good daddy and I know he will get even better once Olivia arrives. :)

P.S.  Good thing it wasn't a boy.  What would we do with a sweater vest onesie now? :)